Alisa DiLorenzo
Marriage Intimacy Strategist
Equipping couples and those who work with them to create extraordinary marriages

Alisa DiLorenzo

Transforming marriages through the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

Alisa DiLorenzo

Transforming marriages through the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

Marriage CoachingIntimacyConflict Resolution
Co-host of ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show with 35M+ downloads
#1 international bestselling author of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®
Creator of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Certified Coaching Program
2024 Gold Medal and 2023 First Place in Relationships/Family category

About Alisa DiLorenzo

Transforming marriages through the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

I am dedicated to helping couples strengthen their relationships through my work as a marriage coach and co-creator of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®. With over 35 million podcast downloads and multiple bestselling books, I offer a framework that serves as a roadmap for couples seeking deeper connection.

Why Book Alisa DiLorenzo as Your Podcast Guest

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Clear, Memorable Framework

I bring a simple six-pillar model that turns abstract intimacy into concrete talking points your audience can remember and apply after the episode.

Actionable, Low-Drama Tools

I bring step-by-step actions, phrases, and questions couples can try tonight, increasing listener satisfaction and the likelihood they'll share the episode.

Balanced, Safe Conversations

I bring language that honors both spouses, avoids taking sides, and keeps sensitive topics like sex, money, and faith accessible for diverse audiences.

Proven Audience Resonance

I bring insights from 35M+ downloads on what keeps married listeners engaged, helping you shape episodes that boost retention and repeat listens.

Episode Angles & Topics

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The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®: A Simple Map for Complex Marriages

Give your listeners a memorable, six-part framework they can immediately use to diagnose disconnection and start rebuilding closeness.

Why most marriage advice feels random-and how a framework changes that Quick overview of emotional, physical, financial, spiritual, recreational, and sexual intimacy How couples can identify their weakest pillar in one conversation One small action per pillar listeners can try this week
Breaking the Conflict Cycle Without Becoming a Therapist

Equip your audience with practical steps to stop repeating the same fights and start resolving issues with clarity and compassion.

The most common conflict patterns Alisa sees in coaching couples How language and assumptions keep couples stuck in the same argument The "One Pillar. One Reframe. One Action." approach to conflict Examples of conflict shifts couples can model immediately
When Couples Turn to Their Pastor: A Framework That Actually Helps

Serve faith-based audiences by showing leaders how to respond when couples say, "We're struggling"-without taking sides or feeling stuck.

Why pastors and leaders often feel unprepared for marriage crises How the 6 Pillars give leaders neutral language for hard topics Practical questions leaders can ask instead of giving quick fixes How couples and leaders can align on one clear next step
Lessons from 35M+ Downloads: What Married Audiences Really Lean Into

Leverage proven insights from a top marriage podcast to shape episodes that married listeners finish, share, and act on.

Topics and titles that consistently drive engagement with married listeners Why honest, specific stories outperform vague "marriage tips" Balancing vulnerability and practicality in an audio format How to structure a marriage episode for maximum retention
What You'll Get From This Interview
Audience Takeaways

Listeners gain a simple language for intimacy, practical next steps for strengthening their marriage, and hope-filled, real-world examples that make change feel doable, not overwhelming.

Hot Topics
How the 6 Pillars of Intimacy® give couples and leaders a simple roadmap for building connection instead of just fixing problems
Why pastors and ministry leaders feel stuck with couples-and how a clear framework changes those conversations
Real-world lessons from 35M+ podcast downloads on what married audiences actually listen to, share, and act on
Why Trust Me
#1 international bestselling author of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®
Co-host of ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show with 35M+ downloads
11 books published on intimacy, conflict resolution, and trust repair
The Ideal Show

Podcasts serving married or engaged audiences, Christian and faith-based shows, relationship and family podcasts, personal growth and coaching shows, and programs equipping pastors, counselors, and ministry leaders.

Recent Podcast Appearances

237: Menopause Shouldn't Suck, with Alisa DiLorenzo

Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell Apr 25, 2025

Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo on building a better marriage

Susie Larson Live Feb 29, 2024

Special Guests: Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo

The Jon Dabach Show Jun 9, 2023

54. ONE Extraordinary Marriage, With Alisa DiLorenzo

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Doctor Alexandra Stockwell, MD Dec 15, 2021

37: Scheduling Sex with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo

Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell Jul 7, 2021

222: Extraordinary Love & Commitment with Alisa DiLorenzo

Orion's World® May 26, 2020

One Extraordinary Marriage with Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

The Dad Edge Podcast Jun 24, 2019

Trade Secrets - 006 - Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Relationship Trade Secrets Mar 15, 2019

092: Interview Part 2 with Alisa DiLorenzo

Build Your Utopia Aug 27, 2015

091: Interview Part 1 with Alisa DiLorenzo

Build Your Utopia Aug 25, 2015

Key Achievements

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Co-created The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework used by couples, pastors, and ministry leaders.
Co-hosted ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, surpassing 35M+ podcast downloads.
Authored multiple bestselling marriage books, including a #1 international bestseller.
Developed The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Certified Coaching Program for pastors, coaches, and ministry leaders.
Received a 2024 Gold Medal and 2023 First Place award in Relationships/Family category.
Published specialized resources on conflict resolution and trust repair in marriage.
Delivered 900+ podcast episodes focused on building extraordinary marriages.
Guided couples globally from disconnection to intentional, consistent connection.

Professional Experience

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Co-Creator, 6 Pillars of Intimacy®
ONE Extraordinary Marriage
Aug 2020 - Present

Co-created and applies a six-part intimacy framework with couples and leaders, bringing clarity, shared language, and practical direction to marriage conversations.

Co-Founder | Co-Host, ONE Extraordinary Marriage
ONE Extraordinary Marriage
2009 - Present

Co-hosts a global marriage podcast with 35M+ downloads, sharing weekly, actionable guidance and leading events, workshops, and programs for couples.

Business Development Representative
Republic Leasing
1997 - 1998

Built client relationships through needs-based conversations, developing foundational listening, communication, and trust-building skills.

Education

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Bachelor of Arts (B.A.), Psychology
DePauw University

Speaker Topics

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What Alisa DiLorenzo Can Speak About:
Marriage coaching Christian marriage ministry 6 Pillars of Intimacy Emotional intimacy in marriage Physical intimacy for couples Financial intimacy coaching

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Actionable, story-rich insights on Marriage coaching, Christian marriage ministry, 6 Pillars of Intimacy. Studio-quality video & audio. Available Weekdays only. Happy to share with my audience.

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